Quote from Mandy:
I think it is about time everyone took a very hard and long look at why they are with DGA for whatever reason, wether it is as gamer, official or committee member. And what exactly it is they are getting out of DGA.
At the moment the whole lot of you are putting little old ladies every where to shame with all the backstabbing, bitching, indignation and stupidity that is going on. In fact I am beginning to believe our politicians could have something to learn from you all. And not only are you doing it in private you are doing it in public forums where everyone else can see what a pack of complaining whinging babies you are.
I have sat quietly on the sidelines for a long time and I can see that this behaviour, more then anything, is what is killing DGA. No one is doing anything because on any decision that needs to be made, you all build your little trenches and get on your high little horses and start yelling across the battlefields at the injustice you are all having served on yourself. You’re all to busy complaining about how no one listens to you and you get no thankyous, that you’re not even bothering to listen and give out a few thankyou’s yourself.
If you are expecting thank you and gratitude you really are in the wrong place. Volunteer work is a thankless and arduous job. No matter where you are doing it. There will be no “you are the best thank you so much”, there will be no glitzy awards, or money, or any other form of reward. That is the way it is and that is the way it will always be. And if you don’t believe me, I ask you, when was the last time you said to some charity worker who has come up to you asking for money “you are doing good work keep it up?”
Those who say they aren’t being listened too should actually read the meeting minutes. There were so many topics discussed that we had to cut the meeting short otherwise we would have been there all night. Everyone’s point of view was heard and discussed. Logically and sensibly. The fact that there were so many issues shows there has been a problem for a long time.
I have to say it was the best DGA meeting I have ever attended. Never before have I seen so many people turn up, willing to do something to help DGA and make it grow. The enthusiasm from all those that made the effort to attend is to be commended.
For those who could not attend, you are not being ostracised from the committee, or cut out of the loop. You are more then welcome to other meetings, it’s just (in the majority, there were exceptions) you obviously had different priorities if you did not put DGA first over other things that could have been rescheduled. If you do not have the time to devote to DGA as an official or committee member just say so. No one will think any less off you. People’s priorities change as they get older, there is nothing wrong with that. If other priorities are taking precedent then just step aside and let someone else who can, jump in and give it a go. This does not mean you can not contribute at all and have no say. It just means you can take a back seat and let someone else do the running around for awhile.
I am not saying anyone in particular is in the right or wrong. Everyone has a foot on each side. And it is not my intention to point any fingers. Hopefully with this new “crew” helping the committee, DGA can take a new and positive step forward. And DGA does not flounder again by avoiding the mistakes made in the past.
[font=Arial][font=Verdana]Those who want to help and can, just help. Even if it is just a suggestion on the forums. And if you think you are not being “heard” you might actually be surprised at how many people are listening. Meetings are also for ALL to attend and put idea’s forward, vote on decisions and be part of the team. It’s time to forget about all the nonsense that has happened in the past and leave it there. And take a step towards the future. Now this may be a very utopian view but I hope it is achievable for DGA’s sake[/font]. [/font]